Pleasure and Joy
What is the difference between pleasure and joy ? Pleasure is a physical state that is derived from a sense of achievement. One works to earn money to enjoy the pleasures of what can be provided by the monetary benefits that one accumulates . Joy on the other hand is an unbridled emotional state of being .
What then is the state that is better in the long run ? I should know considering that I have changed my career tracks more than once - it’s never been a change to earn more money and therefore gain more pleasure but more important has been the joy of the work I do and the contribution no matter how small to make the world a better place (soapbox ? - no . Fact I enjoy the work I do when I am sure it is making a difference no matter how small.. it could be saving time on a process or even something simpler just improving the quality of work being done by someone else)
The teachers I had in school found joy in improving the knowledge of impressionable young kids not so much the ones I met in engineering college; those teacher just wanted to get through the day. Some of them derived pleasure in hauling up kids for no reason... What a huge difference.
I derive pleasure daily by eating 75% dark chocolate and a strong arabica espresso amongst other pleasurable pursuits (huge dopamine kick); but the joy I derive has been for the last 20 so years driven by the impact my life and actions have had on my immediate family and others who would be stakeholders in the work or the activities that I do.
It saddens me that we as a nation have reached a point where Joy is forgotten and pleasure has become more important . Pleasure in the misery of others misfortune is being broadcast 24/7 on all news channels and supposedly “educated “ people are willing to go hammer and tongs repeating the misery and finding pleasure in doing this.
“Let my people awake...”- find joy ; share joy . In whatever mechanism that works for you. I for one will continue to strive to make a difference no matter how big or small and how uncomputable by calculus it is.
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Personal thoughts, in today’s day and age , it seems that joy and pleasure stem from narcissism for most of the populous. The problem with narcissism is that it puts tremendous pressure on people to archive Un feasible goals without making them hungrier. Wanting to be Ranvir Alia ,Beyoncé, jay Z , hotshot lawyer, doctor, investment banker or a model is hard enough already , but when you are not prepared to work hard for it , U r better off lowering your expectations. Few things are more self destructive than a combination of high entitlement and a lazy work ethic .
ReplyDeleteUltimately, online manifestations of narcissism may be little more than a self-presentational strategy to compensate for a very low and fragile self-esteem. Yet when these efforts are reinforced and rewarded by others, they perpetuate the distortion of reality and consolidate narcissistic delusions.
Ultimately, online manifestations of narcissism may be little more than a self-presentational strategy to compensate for a very low and fragile self-esteem. Yet when these efforts are reinforced and rewarded by others, they perpetuate the distortion of reality and consolidate narcissistic delusions.
The vanity of our blindness is what blinds us .